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Author Archives: Shannon Burton
Scheduling Sex Is Hot…Here’s How to Do It Right
Planned romps don’t have to feel routine. Listen, I get it. Scheduling sex just doesn’t sound sexy. The idea of “penciling it in” among work, errands, and other obligations can make even the most sex-positive people wince. Yet, scheduled sex is probably more common than you think. For example, perhaps you have… All of theseContinue reading “Scheduling Sex Is Hot…Here’s How to Do It Right”
To Connect Deeply, We Need Sexual Authenticity
If you’re not your authentic sexual self, partners aren’t having sex with you; they’re having sex with the mask you created.
Erotic Creativity: The Secret to Lifelong Relationship Passion
Follow these 4 steps for a deeper, more sensually inspired connection.
How Much Sex is Normal? A Woman’s Guide to Natural Desire
Sexual desire is completely natural. How frequently someone has it, however, can vary significantly.
29 Natural Aphrodisiac Foods for Women [+12 to Avoid]
…plus 12 debunked aphrodisiacs to avoid.
HSDD in Women: Symptoms and Treatment for Low Sex Drive
Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder affects 10% of US women. Here’s what to do when it strikes.
Am I Asexual or is it Low Libido? Take this Quiz to Find Out
Asexuality and low libido can look and feel alike. However, there are some key differences between them.
Do Female Libido Supplements Really Increase Sex Drive?
Maca and ashwagandha are believed enhance libido…but do they? And are they safe?
Peace & Pleasure: How to Reduce Stress and Increase Sex Drive
While sex can relieve mild stress, chronic stress is one of the most common causes of low libido.
Love Like a Hedonist: Spice up the Bedroom with These 6 Secrets
What can pleasure-seekers teach us about keeping the spark alive? In my line of work and play, I spend a lot of time around hedonists who know exactly how to spice up the bedroom. hedonist: a person who believes that the pursuit of pleasure is the most important thing in life Hedonist gatherings are oftenContinue reading “Love Like a Hedonist: Spice up the Bedroom with These 6 Secrets”
The Secret of High-Libido Women: Sensual Activation
Increase your sex drive naturally and safely with sensual activation.
Science Vs Sex Drive: The Dirrrrrrty Science
My take on the libido-boosting episode by the Science Vs podcast.
How to Squirt: 4 Steps to Female Ejaculation
When it comes to coming as a vulva owner, people have a lot of questions. This is even more true when trying to learn how to squirt.
14+ Best Massage Oils for Couples
What are the best massage oils for couples giving massages at home?
18 Sex-Positive Books You Should Read
Here’s what my sex-positive book club has read…and what we’re reading next.
Why Are So Many Kinky, Queer, or Poly Folks Neurodivergent?
Why are so many queer, kinky, nonmonogamous people neurodivergent?
Free Yes No Maybe List for Polyamory
The polyamory yes-no-maybe list is a useful tool for discovering what poly dynamics work for you.
8 Lifestyle Dating Tips for Women Over 35
Swiping outside the box in your 30s, 40s, and beyond? Read these dating tips for sexually adventurous women.
10 Boundaries for Happy Polyamory
You can’t have happy, healthy nonmonogamy without boundaries.