If you’re not your authentic sexual self, partners aren’t having sex with you; they’re having sex with the mask you created.
Tag Archives: relationships
Erotic Creativity: The Secret to Lifelong Relationship Passion
Follow these 4 steps for a deeper, more sensually inspired connection.
How Much Sex is Normal? A Woman’s Guide to Natural Desire
Sexual desire is completely natural. How frequently someone has it, however, can vary significantly.
29 Natural Aphrodisiac Foods for Women [+12 to Avoid]
…plus 12 debunked aphrodisiacs to avoid.
Love Like a Hedonist: Spice up the Bedroom with These 6 Secrets
What can pleasure-seekers teach us about keeping the spark alive? In my line of work and play, I spend a lot of time around hedonists who know exactly how to spice up the bedroom. hedonist: a person who believes that the pursuit of pleasure is the most important thing in life Hedonist gatherings are oftenContinue reading “Love Like a Hedonist: Spice up the Bedroom with These 6 Secrets”
The Secret of High-Libido Women: Sensual Activation
Increase your sex drive naturally and safely with sensual activation.
Science Vs Sex Drive: The Dirrrrrrty Science
My take on the libido-boosting episode by the Science Vs podcast.
How to Squirt: 4 Steps to Female Ejaculation
When it comes to coming as a vulva owner, people have a lot of questions. This is even more true when trying to learn how to squirt.
14+ Best Massage Oils for Couples
What are the best massage oils for couples giving massages at home?
Free Yes No Maybe List for Polyamory
The polyamory yes-no-maybe list is a useful tool for discovering what poly dynamics work for you.
8 Lifestyle Dating Tips for Women Over 35
Swiping outside the box in your 30s, 40s, and beyond? Read these dating tips for sexually adventurous women.
10 Boundaries for Happy Polyamory
You can’t have happy, healthy nonmonogamy without boundaries.
Train Your Partner to Come on Command
Ready to add or expand on orgasm play in your relationship?
“I don’t like this thing we do during sex. How do I tell my partner?”
No matter how long you’ve been having sex the way you do, it’s never too late to ask for a change.
10 Sex Furniture Pieces You’ve Gotta Try
Already made use of every surface in the house? Perhaps it’s time for something new! These pieces are sure to inspire your next hottest night.
100 New Sex Ideas for Experienced Lovers
Most people in long-lasting relationships are willing to try just about anything once.
Branching Out with Boundaries
Boundaries and consent aren’t just about sex. Many people struggle to say no to family members, bosses, neighbors, friends, and even to behaviors they themselves want to engage less in.
Orgasm Control, Delay, and Play Techniques for Climax Pros
How to last longer and orgasm powerfully on command.
Single & Satisfied: How I had ‘relationship sex’ while flying solo.
I realized that I could take care of myself. I could love myself. And I could fuck myself.
How To Orgasm: Free eBook
Never had an orgasm, aren’t sure, or just want to have them more often? Read on for how orgasms work and how to have one.