Pictured: The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-on Sex by Violet Blue and Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

Activities, Links, and More!

Here are my latest activities, links, and recommendations.

Where to find me:

FREE Sexual Communication Activity Book:

FREE Yes, No, Maybe List

This free Yes, No, Maybe List is for partnered people with limited sexual experience or range. It’s a simple conversation starter for new sexy ideas. —->

Yes, No, Maybe List:
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FREE. (Learn how to use this worksheet.)

Join the Sex Positive Book Club

The Sex-Positive Book Club hosts monthly virtual and in-person meetings to discuss books about sex, sexuality, and sexual psychology and science. Enjoy reading and talking about sex, or want to get better at those things? This is the place for you!

Join the Club on Facebook

Must-Reads & Great Listens

Books currently on my shelf:

Unf#ck Your Intimacy by Faith G. Harper

Girl Boner by August McLaughlin

Polysecure by Jessica Fern

The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

Podcasts on my weekly playlist:

Shameless Sex with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert

Savage Lovecast with Dan Savage

Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

The Multiamory Podcast with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase

Are you a woman who survived childhood sexual assault?

Haven Retreat for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse

The Haven Retreat for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse is a FREE retreat for women focused on brain and body connection and wellness. The leaders of the retreat do not try to sell attendees anything while there, simply offering resources to aid in recovery from childhood trauma.