Up to 41% of people struggle to feel satisfied with their orgasms…if they’re having them at all. Let’s fix that.
Author Archives: Shannon Burton
Orgasm Control, Delay, and Play Techniques for Climax Pros
How to last longer and orgasm powerfully on command.
Single & Satisfied: How I had ‘relationship sex’ while flying solo.
I realized that I could take care of myself. I could love myself. And I could fuck myself.
I Screamed My Own Name When I Came
Giving myself powerful orgasms created a huge shift in my relationship with myself, pleasure, and sex.
How To Orgasm: Free eBook
Never had an orgasm, aren’t sure, or just want to have them more often? Read on for how orgasms work and how to have one.
The Art of Arousal
Achieve a heightened state of pleasure for ultimate sexual satisfaction.
Pleasure Mapping: A How-To Guide
When done right, pleasure mapping helps you and your partner(s) identify new ways of touching each other and connecting through pleasure.
Where to Go For Online Sex Therapy
Resources for those seeking online therapy for sex and sexuality.
Let’s Get Kinky!
When you consider the narrow definition of conventional sex, there’s way more unconventional, kinky ways to have it.
One Simple Practice To Revolutionize Your Sex Life
Mindful masturbation has powerful outcomes for many practitioners.
Ethical Nonmonogamy vs. Consensual Nonmonogamy: What’s the Difference?
Nonmonogamy has been around for as long as humans have been. But what makes it ethical…or consensual?
Free Intro to Kink Chat, and much more!
I’ve been working in the woods for the past month, and as a result have been a little less connected than usual. But good news! I’ll be back at my regular desk in just a few days. And wow, will I be hitting the ground running. Here are some updates.
Consent Series Pt. 1: It’s Not About Sex
This week, I’m kicking off a series of posts about consent. For Part 1, I want to cover some consent basics, including why consent actually has very little to do with sex.
When Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life
For the vast majority of people, masturbation is a totally normal part of human sexuality. But for some people, it can interfere with partnered sex and overall wellbeing.
My Therapist Won’t Talk About Sex
Recently, a client sought me out for an interesting reason: Their therapist told them to.
Is Polyamorous an Identity or a Relationship Style?
Definitions, opinions, and how to spot manipulative polyamory.
8 Ways Masturbating Improves Your Sex Life
Practice makes perfect, so the saying goes. Practicing giving and receiving pleasure on our own has multiple long-term benefits for both ourselves and our partners.
Guide to Erotic Massage for Partners
Erotic massage, also called sensual massage, is an excellent way for partners to tap into intense sensuality.
3 Steps to Mindful Masturbation
Adding mindful masturbation to your solo sex practice has many benefits, some of which can be truly transformative for your sex life.
Sex Positivity Self-Assessment
How sex positive are you, really? Here are 80 questions to help you figure it out.