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Category Archives: sex education
Visit a Discrete BDSM Dungeon in New Orleans
Whether you’re a BDSM novice or have been in the lifestyle for years, a visit to The Happy Kitten Portal in New Orleans is a must-do when you’re in town.
Free Intro to Kink Chat, and much more!
I’ve been working in the woods for the past month, and as a result have been a little less connected than usual. But good news! I’ll be back at my regular desk in just a few days. And wow, will I be hitting the ground running. Here are some updates.
When Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life
For the vast majority of people, masturbation is a totally normal part of human sexuality. But for some people, it can interfere with partnered sex and overall wellbeing.
My Therapist Won’t Talk About Sex
Recently, a client sought me out for an interesting reason: Their therapist told them to.
Guide to Erotic Massage for Partners
Erotic massage, also called sensual massage, is an excellent way for partners to tap into intense sensuality.
Sex Positivity Self-Assessment
How sex positive are you, really? Here are 80 questions to help you figure it out.
Workshops Galore!
April is officially “The Month of Workshops” here at Sex Coach Shannon.
Agility in Sex Ed Entrepreneurship
Four weeks ago, I was celebrating my new direction. Two weeks later, I was out of work.
Embracing Sexuality, Gender & Language, and Sex-Positive Book Club
Next week is chock full of opportunities for us to connect. Check these out and hope to see you at one!
A New Direction
Success is iterative, and it’s time to make a change.
The Underappreciated Versatility of Strap-On Sex
(NSFW) History shows us that strap-ons have many more uses than just pegging and lesbian sex.
Triads, Instagram, and the Email List
A quickie after a long week of foundational work.
Ethical Nonmonogamy, Virtual Classes, and the Sex-Positive Book Club
After returning from an extended vacation, I’ve had a busy week planning and making virtual appearances. I even accidentally started a sex-positive book club.
Ethical Nonmonogamy 101
Lately, I’ve seen an increase in chatter about ethical nonmonogamy on social media. With more chatter often comes more understanding—but also sometimes more misunderstanding. Let’s clear some things up.
Come As You Are Book Review and Free Ethical Nonmonogamy Livestream
COVID left me stranded on an island, so I finally had time to read and get creative. Get details on resources and my thoughts on Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski.
Improving the Yes, No, Maybe List [+5 Free Lists]
Yes, No, Maybe lists have helped countless people improve their sex lives. I think we can make them even better.
How a Yes, No, Maybe List Inspires Sexual Exploration [+5 Free Lists]
A Yes, No, Maybe list is a great way for partners to get to know one another’s sexual interests and boundaries. It lists a number of sexual activities, and each partner marks whether they are interested in each activity (yes), not interested in it (no), or might be interested (maybe).
The National Sex Ed Conference and Where to Find Online Sex Therapists
Last week, I virtually attended the Center for Sex Education’s National Sex Ed Conference and wrote an article about where you can find sex therapists offering online sessions.
A Podcast Appearance, A Sex Ed Conference, and Porn Addiction
This week I appeared on my first web show, prepared for a conference, and wrote about what to do when masturbation ruins your sex life.
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