If you’re not your authentic sexual self, partners aren’t having sex with you; they’re having sex with the mask you created.
Tag Archives: human sexuality
Let’s Get Kinky!
When you consider the narrow definition of conventional sex, there’s way more unconventional, kinky ways to have it.
Free Intro to Kink Chat, and much more!
I’ve been working in the woods for the past month, and as a result have been a little less connected than usual. But good news! I’ll be back at my regular desk in just a few days. And wow, will I be hitting the ground running. Here are some updates.
Consent Series Pt. 1: It’s Not About Sex
This week, I’m kicking off a series of posts about consent. For Part 1, I want to cover some consent basics, including why consent actually has very little to do with sex.
When Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life
For the vast majority of people, masturbation is a totally normal part of human sexuality. But for some people, it can interfere with partnered sex and overall wellbeing.
My Therapist Won’t Talk About Sex
Recently, a client sought me out for an interesting reason: Their therapist told them to.