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Author Archives: Shannon Burton
Ethical Nonmonogamy, Virtual Classes, and the Sex-Positive Book Club
After returning from an extended vacation, I’ve had a busy week planning and making virtual appearances. I even accidentally started a sex-positive book club.
Ethical Nonmonogamy 101
Lately, I’ve seen an increase in chatter about ethical nonmonogamy on social media. With more chatter often comes more understanding—but also sometimes more misunderstanding. Let’s clear some things up.
Come As You Are Book Review
COVID left me stranded on an island, so I finally had time to read and get creative. Get details on resources and my thoughts on Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski.
Improving the Yes, No, Maybe List [+5 Free Lists]
Yes, No, Maybe lists have helped countless people improve their sex lives. I think we can make them even better.
Reflections on the Old Year, Plans for the New
Despite many challenges, there were some glimmers in 2021. Here’s a quick recap and an idea of what to look for from me in 2022.
Happy Holidays!
This week, I’m traveling to my other home in the US Virgin Islands to be with family for Christmas and ring in the new year with some dear friends.
How a Yes, No, Maybe List Inspires Sexual Exploration [+5 Free Lists]
A Yes, No, Maybe list is a great way for partners to get to know one another’s sexual interests and boundaries. It lists a number of sexual activities, and each partner marks whether they are interested in each activity (yes), not interested in it (no), or might be interested (maybe).
The National Sex Ed Conference and Where to Find Online Sex Therapists
Last week, I virtually attended the Center for Sex Education’s National Sex Ed Conference and wrote an article about where you can find sex therapists offering online sessions.
A Podcast Appearance, A Sex Ed Conference, and Porn Addiction
This week I appeared on my first web show, prepared for a conference, and wrote about what to do when masturbation ruins your sex life.
Gratitude
After taking some time off to rest, reflect, and connect with friends, I have a lot to be thankful for.
Reddit AMA: Marketing Lessons Learned as a Sex Coach
This week I took a leap and hosted a Reddit AMA, or “Ask Me Anything” post. It went better than expected!
Strap-On Sex, Masturbation, and Boudoir/Kink Photography
This week, I taught my second live class, wrote about the benefits of masturbation, and met a new photographer friend.
Another Week, Another Class on the Calendar
This week I graded kink assignments, wrote about therapists who won’t talk about sex, and scheduled another strap-on class.
Happy Halloween!
From feature articles to landing instructor gigs, here’s what I’ve been up to while y’all prepped your gorgeous costumes and posed for the ‘Gram.
Sex Blogging on Medium and Sex-Positive Facebook Groups
This week, I stepped out of my comfort zone a bit on Facebook and finally hammered down a content plan on Medium.
Poly and Pegging and Pleasure, Oh My!
A review of October’s Happy Kitten Pleasure School weekend of classes and what’s coming up next.
Pegging Class: Live and Virtual Options
On the hunt for a pegging tutorial? Look no further.
Sex Coach Pricing, Text Chat, Reddit, and More
It’s been another eventful week and things are really picking up steam. Here are the latest developments, updates, and availability info.
Return of the Sex Coach
Some updates on my gender and language presentation, sex coach certification, marketing, and more.