Author: Shannon Burton
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How a Yes, No, Maybe List Inspires Sexual Exploration [+5 Free Lists]
A Yes, No, Maybe list is a great way for partners to get to know one another’s sexual interests and boundaries. It lists a number of sexual activities, and each partner marks whether they are interested in each activity (yes), not interested in it (no), or might be interested (maybe).
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The National Sex Ed Conference and Where to Find Online Sex Therapists
Last week, I virtually attended the Center for Sex Education’s National Sex Ed Conference and wrote an article about where you can find sex therapists offering online sessions.
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A Podcast Appearance, A Sex Ed Conference, and Porn Addiction
This week I appeared on my first web show, prepared for a conference, and wrote about what to do when masturbation ruins your sex life.
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Gratitude
After taking some time off to rest, reflect, and connect with friends, I have a lot to be thankful for.
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Reddit AMA: Marketing Lessons Learned as a Sex Coach
This week I took a leap and hosted a Reddit AMA, or “Ask Me Anything” post. It went better than expected!
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Another Week, Another Class on the Calendar
This week I graded kink assignments, wrote about therapists who won’t talk about sex, and scheduled another strap-on class.
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Happy Halloween!
From feature articles to landing instructor gigs, here’s what I’ve been up to while y’all prepped your gorgeous costumes and posed for the ‘Gram.
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Sex Blogging on Medium and Sex-Positive Facebook Groups
This week, I stepped out of my comfort zone a bit on Facebook and finally hammered down a content plan on Medium.
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Return of the Sex Coach
Some updates on my gender and language presentation, sex coach certification, marketing, and more.
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Sex Down South, The Sexology Institute, and Pleasure School
After weathering Hurricane Ida and its aftermath, I’m entering the final stages of my sex coach certification course while stepping into my first role as an in-person sex educator.
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Breathing is Nonbinary
On the surface, breathing seems binary. You’re either inhaling or exhaling. Except, at the end of each inhale and exhale, there’s a moment where things are different.
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What is Sex Coaching?
When someone wants more out of their sex life, it’s sometimes hard to know where to turn. A sex coach is one useful option.
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Poly While Social Distancing
Vaccine rollouts bring hope that the end of social distancing is near for countries still battling the COVID-19 pandemic. However, until the virus’s spread is truly under control, poly folk must continue to assess risk and have frank conversations about keeping those in our partner networks safe.
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How to Have Great Solo Sex
In what ways can masturbation be just as satisfying, or even more satisfying, than partnered sex?
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How to Find (and Vet!) Discreet Play Parties
Have you attended a play party before? These sex-positive events are a fun way to meet new people and engage in sexual adventures. With themes ranging from masquerade to game night, and parties dedicated to BDSM, swinging, or kinks, every party is unique. Your experience will depend largely on the organizers, the space, and the…
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Reclaiming Your Sexy After A Breakup
For many of us, a breakup brings on a serious loss in libido. Here’s how to bring sexy back.
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Kitchen Sink Sex
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “everything but the kitchen sink.” Someone might joke, for example, that their partner packed everything but the kitchen sink for a trip, or that their boss heaped everything but the kitchen sink onto their to-do list. So what is “kitchen sink sex”? If you’re picturing a couple banging it out…
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Deserting LGBTQ+ Virgin Islanders
A VI community group changed its name for Pride, and lost 400 members. (Trigger warning: This post contains screenshots of homophobic language and describes homophobic behavior.) Homophobia in the Caribbean is nothing new, and the U.S. Virgin Islands certainly has its share. When the U.S. Supreme Court was still considering whether to legalize same-sex marriage in all…
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Are You Worthy of Love?
Yes; but you may not be ready for a romantic relationship Whether you know it or not, whether you feel it or not, you are absolutely worthy of love. But that doesn’t mean you’re entitled to romance. Our obsession with romantic relationships is a little scary. We can have rich, full personal lives where we…
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Planned Parenthood is for Everyone, Including Men
I recently visited my local Planned Parenthood and was surprised to find only men sitting in the waiting room. While one was clearly a security guard, the others were not. There are many reasons why men might be in the Planned Parenthood waiting room, of course: they may be there with a partner, friend, or…