Seeking an elevated adventure on the edge of your erotic horizon? I’ve got you covered.
Sexy luxury experiences for women aren’t hard to come by. As I write this, booty painting and vaginal steaming are all the rage.
However, finding reputable providers sure to deliver on their promise and keep your sexy bits safe adds an extra layer of consideration.
Let’s save you some time. Here are my top 6 favorite, body-friendly ways to combine luxury and sensuality…and some tips for guaranteeing your complete satisfaction.
1. Book a boudoir photographer.
A boudoir session with a talented photographer is an incredible experience. From selecting one or more outfits and getting glammed up to the thrill of celebrating your sensuality and body before a lens, the feeling is unforgettable.
Then, of course, there are the photos. Immortalizing your divine beauty and energy, you can choose which to keep to yourself and which, if any, to share with appreciative parties.
Getting the right boudoir photographer is crucial. I personally recommend Raven Red if you’re ever in San Antonio, TX.
You can search online for boudoir photographers in your area. They should have a portfolio that’s easy to find and browse on their website, Instagram, or another photo-sharing site.
By looking through portfolios, you’ll get a sense for the types of poses and locations each photographer gravitates toward. Some are happy to meet you at a location, while others may prefer to shoot at their studio.
Shop around for a photographer whose style resonates with you, then reach out to book.
2. Visit a woman-owned boutique.
Online shopping and discrete shipping have made visiting brick-and-mortar adult stores unnecessary.
But for the adventurous woman, a visit to your local woman-owned adult boutique is erotic and luxurious, indeed.
Gone are the days of seedy adult stores with sticky countertops. Women have revolutionized shopping for our pleasure.
Today there are plenty of delightful woman-owned boutiques that are breaths of fresh air.
Thoughtfully laid out, well-lit, and clean, these shops are filled with only the best body-safe devices and helpful, knowledgeable staff ready to show you how they work.
Gather the guts to ask for help selecting your next sexy toy. It’s like having a personal stylist for your pleasure.
My favorite stores near me are Dynamo in New Orleans, LA and the Sexology Institute in San Antonio.
Search online for “woman-owned adult boutique near me” to find your nearest shop.
3. Watch a burlesque show.
Combining theatre, eroticism, and often comedy, burlesque shows challenge our comfort with overt sexuality and states of undress while reminding us that we don’t always have to take these things seriously.
Burlesque performances are different from the dancing you’ll find in clubs aimed at a male audience. These dancers incorporate a sensual strip tease into complex storytelling that usually involves themed costumes, makeup, and even props and sets.
There are a range of styles when it comes to burlesque. Some shows are more risque than others, while some could be considered relatively conservative.
Personally, I enjoy the burlesque shows at AllWays Lounge & Cabaret in New Orleans. Check out their calendar for a variety of other sexy performances like erotic readings and kinky demonstrations, too.
To find a luxury burlesque experience, you can search for “VIP burlesque” in cities like New Orleans, New York, Atlanta, Philadelphia, Chicago, Dallas, Seattle, Los Angeles, and San Francisco.
4. Attend a class or retreat.
Learning new skills opens you up to endless sexy luxury experiences wherever you go.
And there are plenty of ways to learn.
I’m partial to my own classes, of course. I offer private and public workshops both virtually and in New Orleans, covering topics like orgasm play, squirting, erotic massage, pleasure mapping, and even BDSM for beginners.
Your nearest adult boutique likely also hosts classes, workshops, and other educational opportunities. I know my favorites do.
There are a number of women’s retreats centered around sexual empowerment to choose from. Many change each year, so make sure to look for reviews while you search and don’t hesitate to make a phone call if you have questions before booking.
If you prefer to keep your learning online, check out Dipsea and OMGYes. These apps are making waves in the modern movement for women’s sexuality.
5. Go to a lifestyle event.
If you’re feeling bold and craving a more organic experience than a class, members-only lifestyle events are worth a look.
This includes play parties and retreats like Hedonism and Naughty Events, but there are other options, too.
Not every lifestyle gathering is an all-out orgy. I’d even venture to say that only a very small percentage are.
Most adult lifestyle events include a mix of people eager to have sex, people who might be open to it under the right circumstances, and people who are just there to watch or be among like-minded friends.
Overwhelmingly, these events champion consent and encourage attendees to participate in ways they’re enthusiastic about.
Every host runs things a little differently. I’ll use a few New Orleans lifestyle staples to demonstrate the kind of the range you might find with members-only lifestyle spaces:
- Colette’s is a sultry multi-level nightclub in the central business district. One floor is dedicated to dancing and the others, well…your imagination can do the work. Membership is available at the door after filling out a form.
- Prive‘ is an intimate, tropically inspired hideaway in the French Quarter. It includes a clothing-optional pool, hot tub, cabana bar, and private “Nookie Nook” (though the pool and hot tub see plenty of action). Prospective visitors apply for membership online.
- Kinky Salon is a playful community that hosts parties at different locations a few times a year. Join their email list to become a member, wait for event tickets to go on sale, attend a virtual consent class, and prepare to costume.
Many folks also host parties in their private homes, but you’ll have to find your way into those social circles to get invited. Venues like the ones above are a good place to start.
Many major cities have their versions of Colette’s, Prive, and Kinky Salon. Adult boutiques are a great resource if you have questions about local opportunities for sexy luxury experiences.
6. Hire a sex coach.
The epitome of luxury, of course, is an erotic journey tailored perfectly to you.
Whether you’re looking to fully embody your inner Sex Goddess, explore new erotic territories, or come like a queen, a sex coach can guide the way.
With over a decade of experience helping women have the sex and orgasms of their wildest dreams, it would be my honor to empower you on the path to your greatest erotic bliss.
Want to learn more? Book a discovery call.
Coaching is available virtually and in New Orleans. Let’s get you enjoying all the sexy luxury experiences you can take.🔥
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